Just a thought. There are two types of heartbreakers.
Yes, you read it right. Two.
The first type would be the easiest to spot. The natural heartbreaker. At first he's just another pretty face in the crowd but then give him time and he'll end up being every woman's object of affection. How did he do it? It's really at first all about the looks (admit it or not you'll always first notice someone through his face [and body] value), the talents he can brag about PLUS his being friendly with you. And actually it ends up he's rather too friendly to you. He calls you out of nowhere only to ask "How are you?" and when you insist on asking why did he call you he would just reply "Answer me first, how are you?" He invites you to hang-out, parties and other crazy things just like a close friend -and you've just met him. If you ask me, I only see guy friends of mine exert this kind of effort to girls who they really really like.
And yeah, when you just can't help it and ask this guy "Do you like her?". Surprise surprise! He'll respond with a "No, I'm really just friendly."
OHH. HOW KUPAL OF HIM.
But for the second type of heartbreaker, he is the guy you will never have for the reason that his heart will not [or maybe will find a hard time] be able to like you in that way. This guy's naturally friendly and ,take note of this, so unlike the first type of heartbreaker where his friendliness bothers you and makes you wonder whether he's hitting on you. This guy's a good company, talented, kind, always looks out after his friends and he's got a good humor also. And yeah, he always shares his baon with his friends. Can we consider him a boyfriend material? Why not.
And when he finally admitted that he's not who we think he is, girls' heart sank [including mine haha jk] for reasons you-know-what.
And when friends tell him, "Grabe, sayang." or "A lot of girls actually like you.", he would feel sad because he knows he has really no intention of disappointing or hurting someone. "Ayoko nang makakasakit", he would say.
And from this point I bet you would already know how Heartbreaker #1 would react to compliments about girls swooning over him.
So I guess by now it's clear who would I prefer from the two to get my heart broken with :))
I am proud to know someone who feels bad because has no intention of hurting people who just can't help but like him as a guy. And I am really lucky to have met someone who doesn't really care how many girls who got their hearts broken because of him since basically he is a natural heartbreaker. He just can't help it HAHA. :D
AND I REALLY THOUGHT STUFFS LIKE THESE ONLY HAPPEN IN MOVIES. :)